Does a girl you know not respond to text messages or respond reluctantly or with monosyllabic phrases? In this article we will talk about the possible reasons, as well as give some useful tips to help you get out of this situation.
Why doesn't a girl want to answer messages?
So, let's imagine the situation. You met a girl on VKontakte or Facebook and corresponded with her for some time. Then you noticed that she responds to your messages for a very long time, coldly and monosyllabically: “yes”, “no”, “maybe”, “maybe”, etc. An extreme case is that she does not respond to messages at all or has even stopped reading them.
The only possible reason for this behavior is that she is simply not interested in communicating with you. If she were interested in communicating with you, then she would find the time to write something interesting, unless she was in intensive care or ended up on a desert island.
Why did she lose interest in communication? Most likely, they themselves are to blame. Here are the most common mistakes guys make when texting girls:
- Obsessiveness. If you constantly try to maintain communication, even when the girl does not want to continue it, sooner or later it will lead to sad consequences. This shows how much you need to communicate with her and greatly reduces your “value” in her eyes.
- Lack of tact. For example, you left an ambiguous comment on her photo or wrote something not very decent on her wall. This is a direct path to getting blacklisted.
- Unoriginality. You were able to interest her at the beginning of the conversation, but then quickly slipped into platitudes like: “hi, how are you?”, “what are you doing?” etc. If you want to attract attention, learn to be original! Don't know what to write? Read on, we'll tell you.
What to do in such a situation
Firstly, you need to radically reconsider your approach to communicating with girls on the Internet. Here are some useful articles that will definitely help you:
Secondly, the easiest thing is to find a new girl to correspond with, since it’s unlikely that anything will work out with this one. However, this does not mean that all is lost. There are several tricks that will help you resume communication. Want to know which ones? Then read on.
What to write to a girl who ignores you
In order for a girl who is ignoring you to respond to a message, you need to somehow intrigue her, cheer her up, hook her, or piss her off. Here are some examples of fun and provocative messages that will help with this:
- “You’re not so beautiful that it’s so easy to ignore my messages.”
- “You don’t look very good in this photo. What has happened with you?"
- “When I started corresponding with you, it seemed to me that you were an interesting and original girl. And you seem like everyone else..."
- “I see that you are not interested. I won't write any more. But it would be more honest on your part to tell me directly about this, rather than remain silent..."
- “I won’t write anything for the next two years—I’m going to Namibia to feed the elephants.”
Of course, it is important here not to cross the line of what is permitted, otherwise it will all end in an ordinary quarrel.
How to quietly read VKontakte messages
vk.com/im?q=day:31122014
(these numbers indicate the date - in this example 12/31/2014)
Following this link you will see all messages that were written before 12/31/2014. A new window will open in your browser in which you will have the opportunity to read messages sent by you and addressed to you until December 31, 2014. This way you can read all messages and they will not be marked as read either for you or for your interlocutor.
Second working method
If you want to quietly read new messages in Contact, you can use another method. To do this, you need to go to “My Messages”, then in the search column for messages or interlocutors you need to enter any word and follow the “Search” link. After that, move the mouse cursor over the button that is located next to the “Search” button - “Messages before a certain date.” A calendar will open in front of you. There you should click today or the next date.
Select the word that you entered in the search column using the mouse, right-click and select “Delete” or press the key on the keyboard
Kate Mobile is a convenient mobile client that allows you to visit social network pages. After installing the application, you must enter your VK account login information. A third-party client is chosen by those who are tired of errors that occur when working with the official one, and by users who want to expand the standard functionality of the web service.
Possibility of hidden reading of messages
There are two ways to avoid reading messages in Kate Mobile. In other words, the user can enter the application’s conversation and view it, but the interlocutor will not know about it. This function can be useful in cases where there is no opportunity or desire to respond to another person.
The first is to enable a special option in the settings. And the second does not require this, but will work with some restrictions. Let's look at them in order of decreasing ease of use.
Method 1: Enabling a special option
Open Kate Mobile's settings. Immediately enter the category "Online". There you will find the option "Close unread".If you activate it, the interlocutor will not know that all his messages have been viewed. Also pay attention to the point "Typing". It will also be useful for temporarily maintaining incognito status.
In this case, the correspondence will not be touched even while typing. But sometimes there is a need to “read”. And here there are two obvious options: send your interlocutor a reply message or turn off the option in the settings. But there is also an alternative option. Tap on the desired line and select "Mark as...".
Method 2: Option to exit correspondence
It is not necessary to change the application settings. If you have just opened a correspondence window with any user, there will be another method, like leaving messages unread in Kate Mobile. Their status will only change when you go back or start typing a response. Instead, you can call the dialog context menu. It has the option "Close unread".
Hi all! I am sure that everyone has such situations when, for example, you received 5 messages in a row, you need to read them, but at the same time, without marking them as read. The methods are very simple, if anyone didn’t know them, look:
Method No. 1
1. A person wrote to you:
Part of the message is visible, but the rest is hidden and if you read it, the messages will be marked as read, but we don’t need that
2. Enter in the search bar the Name of the person who wrote the message to you. The “Search in private messages” button will appear - click on it.
3. We read ALL messages sent to them, and at the same time - anonymously
Method No. 2
Download and install the FlyVK extension.
The extension includes many different functions, one of which is, quote, “non-reader”
Here is the official website of this extension:
Http://k-94.ru/FlyVK/
Method No. 3
The link allows you to get into the search for all messages written before a certain date, and in this case - until December 31, 2014. In this mode, you can see the full text of all recent messages in chronological order, but they will not be marked as read either for you or for the interlocutor.
Http://vk.com/im?q=day:31122014
Method No. 4
APIdog - Includes many additional features. This informal client for the VKontakte social network, running on the VKontakte API. The site is completely safe and does not provide confidential data to third parties (VKontakte only)
https://apidog.ru/
Method No. 5
Download and install the KateMobile application on your mobile phone. This is an Android application for the VKontakte social network. Which allows you not only to read messages without marking, but also to sit anonymously!
Official website of the application:
http://katemobile.ru
Everyone loves to receive VKontakte messages, but many users try to view the text anonymously, pretending that the messages have not been read. A person decides to do such things for various reasons. Firstly, he does not want to take part in the correspondence (especially if it is a group conversation). Secondly, the user currently does not know what to write. Thirdly, there is no desire to continue communication with this or that user. Fourthly, it is necessary to delay the response time by choosing a new line of behavior. It is quite possible to read messages on VK and leave them unread. Next, we'll figure out how to do this.
Anonymously reading messages on your computer
No special applications or programs are needed. It's quite simple. You just need to perform the following sequentially related steps:
1. Log in to the social network;
2. Go to personal messages;
3. Place the mouse cursor in the address bar, which needs to be cleared to the im? characters. As a result of this, the following link should appear: https://vk.com/im?;
4. Add q=day:17122017 to the link to get https://vk.com/im?q=day:17122017. The numbers at the end of the link will indicate the date until which all correspondence messages will be found in the search. Accordingly, select the numbers and enter those that you need.
How to read VK messages from your phone so that they remain unread
The second method is only suitable for owners of mobile gadgets that run on the Android operating system. You can read notifications received on VKontakte through an application called kate mobile. You need to download it and install it on your mobile device in order to view messages with it. Just before this, in the settings you need to check the box next to the line “Activate stealth mode”. The “close message unread” option is also set there.
Important nuances
Often, users accidentally click on messages and later regret it. How can you make a notification unread again by returning its status to “sent”?
In the new VKontakte design, this function was eliminated simultaneously with the removal of the “archive of old messages” tool. Now all deleted messages and notifications will automatically disappear forever, as will the ability to hide correspondence activity. In order not to rack your brains over how to turn a message back to unread, you should think carefully about whether or not you want to read a message from a specific person.
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